hey-bae-bae:

Why are women made to feel guilty for watching porn and masturbating? Is it because it’s supposed to be a “male dominant” thing? So what if we have vaginas? Masturbating is so normal it’s ridiculous. I shouldn’t feel guilty for masturbating. I shouldn’t feel guilty for fulfilling my own needs. Just because they’re sexual needs shouldn’t matter either. I hate that women feel like they can’t walk around and be open about masturbating or going up to a group of guys or just one guy and saying “Hey, you know what? I masturbate too!” It’s a part of our human nature to satisfy ourselves. For the longest time I always felt so awkward when my guy friends would talk about masturbation because it seemed like such a private thing. And as private as it may be, it’s normal. But I’m becoming more comfortable when I’m around those conversations. I should feel self conscious when people talk about masturbation. Because hey, I masturbate and I don’t fucking care what you think. Societies standards for men and women are dumb and so are their so called “social norms”. Women shouldn’t feel guilty for pleasuring themselves and men shouldn’t feel guilty for wanting to be a stay at home dad.

FUCK YOU SOCIETY! Stop making women look and feel disgusting! I shouldn’t feel ashamed of myself, self conscious around those that are having conversations about sexual things, or feel disgusted for pleasuring myself. You don’t have the right to throw these standards and “social norms” at me! It’s not your job and it’s none of your business. Let me live my fucking life without worrying about sticking to your “guidelines”!

luxurae:

‘dress for the job you want not the job you have’

*shows up at law firm in lingerie and angel wings*

(via chillxmami)